A home away from home

When asked why she originally decided to become a HomeShare Host for Presbyterian Support, Kathy said that she had wanted to “pay it forward”. And she has certainly done that and then some. Jenny Gill HomeShare Co-ordinator Mid Canterbury says “Kathy’s kindness and desire to help others is what we want to celebrate in acknowledging her time with us. This shows in the extra little touches, like picking flowers from her garden to decorate the table. Kathy even considered the needs of her HomeShare group when purchasing her current property – which is amazingly thoughtful.”

Her members seem to agree. One member joined, and fast forward 11 years - is still attending and is the highlight of their week. At last count, Kathy had clocked up an impressive 28 regular attendees over the years. When her adult son still lived at home, he would often join the group for dessert. A member once joked that he would never leave home as he was treated so well!

Kathy previously hosted by herself, however since her husband Doug retired five years ago, he has been available to help. Now they are a well-oiled machine and often tag team with hosting duties. Kathy and Doug like to do as much as they can for the members whilst they are at their home, Kathy says “It is their opportunity to have a break and enjoy themselves.”

When asked what she loves most about hosting, Kathy said it is the interaction with the people. She says that “They feel part of the family.” Spending such a significant amount of time together, it is a very relaxed atmosphere and great for those who don’t manage well in large groups. It is also a hugely supportive group and bonds have certainly been built whilst sharing “fabulous stories” together.

Kathy’s advice for anyone looking to become a HomeShare Host is “If you want to do it, you can do it” and just to “Be yourself.”

HomeShare

For more information on HomeShare and how you can become involved, please contact your local Presbyterian Support office, and speak with one of our regions’ HomeShare Co-ordinators, or visit our web page.

Presbyterian Support is looking to expand its HomeShare services across its regions.