Breaking the cycle of family dysfunction

The family has had to live in emergency housing and are currently boarding, a situation which could change at any time. Due to their location, with no public transport, it has been difficult for the family to get to appointments, or to the supermarket. Also, Ari’s Grandmother lives in a different town and is terminally ill – so sadly, the family has been unable to visit her for some time due to the cost of travel.

However, with the ongoing support of Presbyterian Support and Youth Transition Worker, Adele* the young family has a much more positive outlook. Adele has been working with Ari on his mental and physical health, so he is better equipped to look for work. She has supported him in connecting with ACC counselling and male mentors, as well as parenting skills courses. She has helped with food security and advocating for him in terms of housing and has helped him to access the financial support he requires.

Adele has also helped Ari to obtain his driver’s licence and in finding suitable options for him to purchase a vehicle. He has recently completed a first aid course and is now considering opportunities for further training. Adele has built a strong relationship with Ari, being there for him when he needed support and guidance, and being an advocate for him as he has become more independent. She says, “It makes me incredibly proud and honoured to witness how this young man is working hard to break the cycle of family harm. He is a very hands-on and loving father who is working hard to build a better future for himself and his family.”