Connection, Care and More than a Cuppa

Over the past 12 months, we’ve been piloting the Dementia Mate WareWare HomeShare programme across the South Island.

Through close collaboration with agencies, staff, volunteers, and local communities, we’ve created meaningful weekly gatherings for people with dementia.

These gatherings foster new friendships and help reduce feelings of isolation, with connections extending beyond the HomeShare days. In rural areas like Golden Bay, Havelock, Hokitika, and Reefton, small groups meet in warm, welcoming spaces - whether in a community hall or a local home.

Sparking connections and meaningful moments. 

In Havelock, the Pelorus Area Health Trust, which hosts the group in the community lounge, provided fencing so attendees could safely enjoy the outdoor space.

Regular donations of seasonal food from whānau and the wider community enrich the gatherings. For example, earlier this year, a family sent in citrus fruit, and the group turned it into delicious marmalade. Sharing tips and recipes, they made several jars that were sold at a local charity shop.

Two people in the group, who have known each other for over 60 years, had the chance to reconnect that morning, making the experience even more special.

HomeShare continues to evolve, with tailored support for younger onset dementia and marae-based groups for kaumātua, ensuring each community’s unique needs are met. Socialising, chatting, and participating in meaningful activities stimulate the mind and improve the quality of life. 

In Reefton, the programme has been a lifeline for people like Margaret* and John*.

Each Thursday, a volunteer drives Margaret to Alice’s* cosy home, where she’s welcomed with tea and a friendly game of 500.

“HomeShare has been such a blessing,” says John. “It gives me a break, and I know Margaret is having a great time.”

HomeShare isn’t just about supporting those with dementia - it’s about strengthening communities. Alice, a HomeShare host, sees firsthand the joy these gatherings bring. “I love hosting, and it’s wonderful to see how much these afternoons mean to everyone. It reminds me we’re all part of a caring community.”

For over 100 years, our work has been about building connections and supporting inclusive communities. Whether it’s offering a warm space, cooking a meal, or helping with transport, there’s a place for everyone to make a difference.