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Creating Safe Spaces - Lee's Story

27 November 2024
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Lee*, 17, is one of those people who loves
old ‘90s cars—the kind that make heads
turn. But for a while, even that passion had
to take a back seat.

After facing a tough and traumatic time at home, Lee, who identifies as rainbow and uses they/them pronouns, felt like they had to leave parts of themselves behind just to get by.

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Finding a safe space

Living in a chaotic environment full of instability and despair, Lee made the brave choice to leave home and start fresh in a new town. However, finding a flat was challenging.

Each rejection felt like a personal attack, amplifying the sense of being judged for simply being themselves.

They felt invisible, as if their struggles and identity were dismissed by those around them. The weight of feeling unheard took a toll on their mental health, leaving Lee battling anxiety and self-doubt.

Then they met Andy*, our Youth Coach. From day one, Andy could see that Lee was stronger than they realised. More than anything, Andy listened to Lee’s story and validated their feelings. 

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“Building connections and really listening to someone’s journey - where they’ve been and where they want to go - helps us understand what they need to thrive. Lee has incredible potential, and it’s about seeing that strength and helping them feel empowered to be themselves,” says Andy. 

Lee found hope the moment they saw the rainbow circle on our front door. As part of the Safe Space Alliance, which helps identify and create supportive
environments for LGBTQI+ communities, our organisation is committed to providing a welcoming and affirming space.

Here, Lee felt a sense of belonging for the first time in a long time. The openness of our staff allowed Lee to relax and reconnect with who they really are.

With Andy’s support, Lee is processing the past and focusing on building the life they want. They’re learning to trust themselves again, slowly reclaiming their voice and identity in a space that celebrates them.

Lee’s journey isn’t over yet, but for the first time, they don’t have to go it alone. Here, they can just hang out, be themselves, and know that they’re accepted - no questions asked.

Learn more about how we support young people to thrive.

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